You might be excited about your baby - but underneath that, there's a quiet voice of questions running in the background. 

Am I forgetting something important? How will I actually cope when baby is here? What if I'm not prepared enough... or not good enough? What if I'm not cut out to be a mom?

I want to know this: 

You are not behind.
You haven’t missed your moment.
And there is nothing wrong with you for feeling this way.

Most mums don’t feel overwhelmed because they aren’t trying.
They feel overwhelmed because they’re trying so hard — saving posts, opening tabs, writing lists, hearing different advice from everyone — and still feeling unsure.

The stress doesn’t come from lack of effort.
It comes from lack of clarity.

When everything feels important — and everyone else is telling you what’s important — nothing feels settled.

What most expecting mums are really craving isn’t more information.
It’s the feeling of knowing they’re doing the right things, in the right order, at the right time.

That’s when preparation starts to feel calm instead of heavy.
That’s when decisions stop spiralling.
That’s when you can breathe again.

I’ve heard so many women talk about how traumatic their birth experience was — especially with their first baby — often because they didn’t know what was available to them.
They didn’t know they had options.
They didn’t know they could ask questions, change care providers, or make different choices.
And in many cases, that lack of information and confidence didn’t just affect their birth — it affected how they stepped into motherhood, and how easily they were able to bond with their baby.

I don’t want that for you.
I don’t want that for any parent.

Medical staff and hospitals are incredible — and they’re working within a busy system focused on safety.
But that system doesn’t always slow down to explain every option, every right you have, or what you can ask for.
That’s why being informed matters. Because when you know what’s available to you, you can advocate for yourself with confidence — and that can change how you experience birth and early motherhood.

There’s also the financial cost.

So many parents quietly tell me they spent hundreds — sometimes thousands — of dollars on baby products they didn’t end up using, didn’t need, or realised too late weren’t right for their lifestyle. I did the same thing.

Not because we’re careless — but because we’re constantly trying to do what’s “right” without a clear plan, and without understanding what actually fits our lifestyle.

It’s hard not to get sucked into all the adorable baby stuff… and the pressure to give your baby everything.

But so much of it is unnecessary — and that financial stress lingers. It adds pressure at a time when you’re already navigating birth, recovery, sleep deprivation, and a whole new identity.

Preparation shouldn’t leave you feeling unsure and out of pocket.

I want you to go into parenthood feeling informed, supported, and confident — so you can show up as the best version of yourself, and focus on bonding with your baby instead of replaying fear or regret.

After years of researching and looking for guidance on how to truly prepare, all I could find was medical information — how your baby grows, what happens during birth, broad advice like “eat well” or “exercise”.

What was missing was support for the transition into parenthood.

There were tips everywhere. Hacks. Opinions. Reels.
But no clear plan. No structure. No guidance that helped you see the full picture and make confident decisions.

That’s why I created The Ultimate Baby Prep Guide — after seeing this same pattern again and again in myself and other mums who deeply care, who want to do the best for their baby, but who feel stuck between fear, confusion, and second-guessing.

Not because they weren’t capable.
But because no one had given them a clear path.

For many mums, this stress starts to show up around the second trimester — when things feel more real, planning begins, and everyone starts sharing their opinions. But that’s only one of many moments before baby arrives where small decisions pile up and start to feel big.

What to buy.
What actually matters.
What can wait.
What will help you sleep, recover, and care for your baby with confidence.

When you can see the full picture early, everything softens.

The Ultimate Baby Prep Guide isn’t about doing more.
It’s about holding the thinking for you and taking away the overwhelm — so you don’t have to keep questioning every decision.

It’s a calm, step-by-step way to move from “Am I ready?”
to “I’ve got this.”

Prepared doesn’t feel frantic.
Prepared feels steady.
It feels like trust — in yourself, and in what’s coming next.

And that’s the shift this guide is designed to support.

You don’t need more advice.
You don’t need to be perfect.

You just need the right plan, at the right time — so you can stop second-guessing and start feeling ready for your baby.